|By: Admin, Date: 2010-11-21 10:02:44, Views: 2137|
|Dating, Attracting the Right Guys|
Many girls who are not as lucky in love as the typical hip chick face the problem of not being able to attract the kind of guys they want and to make things worse, when they do manage to attract someone, he is just a totally different person than imagined, sometimes falling under the classification of weirdo. When this scenario keeps on repeating itself, a girl’s confidence and self esteem can be greatly hurt. Only weird guys find me attractive, I can never get lucky in love, I’m just going to be single for life, how can I ever find someone? These are the common worries among girls facing this problem but life is not that cruel and nobody is doomed.
It is sad to think that among most of the girls in this situation, most of them are genuinely good people inside and outside and many of them know that, at least until they find themselves unlucky in love. The problem is, being good and being positive are completely different things. Unfortunately these girls bring this negative situation onto themselves by being negative about themselves. By doubting their looks, talents and such, they drive themselves to a point of thought where they will never succeed in relationships. Little do they know that the longer they continue with this frame of mind, the worse their situation becomes because often, these negative thoughts can be physically visible in times of anger, sadness, disappointment and so forth. Sometimes, others can be deterred by sightings of someone negative and the most straightforward way to overcome this is to simply be positive.
Being positive does not involve much difficulty or loads of work. You only need to open up your heart and mind and tell yourself that you want to experience great love, excitement, romance, attraction and not despair, depression or such. Live by positive beliefs and believe that sooner or later, good things will come their way. Whether or not you trust this theoretical method, the simple fact is that people are more willing to interact with those in a positive state of mind and this can be applied to dating and other aspects of relationships as well. Quite simply, believing that you are capable of good things can bring you what you want. Do not deter your dream guy with a constant face filled with depression but try to get him to eagerly join you in a cheerful day by putting a smile on your face.
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Dating, Attracting the Right Guys